Whose fault was it?
Upload your conversation. The Judge reads it, deliberates and hands down a merciless verdict on who was right… and who wasn't.
The procedure
Three phases. One sentence.
Present the evidence
Upload your WhatsApp chat (.txt). Anonymous, we don't keep it.
The Judge deliberates
Reads between the lines: who avoids, who promises and flakes, who had already left.
The verdict is served
You get the verdict with the split of blame. Guilty, innocent… or both.
The method
A verdict grounded in relationship science.
The Judge doesn't wing it: it applies the reference frameworks of couples research.
Dr. John Gottman's « Four Horsemen »
Criticism, contempt, defensiveness, stonewalling: the 4 predictors of breakup identified across 40+ years of research. The Judge hunts them in your messages.
Attachment theory (Bowlby & Ainsworth)
Anxious over-texter? Avoidant runner? The Judge identifies each person's attachment style and the dance destroying you.
Documented toxic patterns
Gaslighting, love-bombing, breadcrumbing, the pursue-withdraw cycle (Dr. Sue Johnson)… named precisely, with quoted evidence.
Frameworks drawn from published research. Extribunal is not affiliated with or endorsed by these authors.
Packed courtroom
People share their sentence.
The Judge's verdicts are so good they end up in the group chats.
Illustrative examples. Your conversations are never published.
Pricing
Free to be curious. Paid to know it all.
1 verdict per email
- ✓The verdict: guilty or innocent
- ✓The split of blame (you % / your ex %)
- ✓One brutal line from the Judge
- ✕Line-by-line analysis
- ✕The sentence as a PDF
The Full Sentence
- ✓Line-by-line analysis with the evidence quoted
- ✓The exact week it broke
- ✓Each person's red flags and who left first
- ✓Verdict by category
- ✓Official PDF ready to share
Ready to find out whose fault it was?
Upload the chat. In 60 seconds your sentence is ready to share.
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